me and my girlfreind have been dating for about 3 years and are so in love. we've had our share of bumps but the bumps have been getting more and more often now that shes away at college. before she went away things were perfect after an amazing summer, but as soon as she got there she was having doubts about the long distance thing. she has a lot on her plate as far as school work, sorority pledging, ect. and were fighting cuz she has no time for me. me, im a very busy guy but i still find time to call her to say good morning and good night, and to see how she is, ect.. but shes telling me that when i call she thinks of it as a 'check up' which its not, its just i miss her alot.